B媽Letting Go孩子放手飛~

13個值得參考的觀點

1.不要放棄學生時代所學

大概很多人會說：「大學裡學的東西，對現在的工作一點幫助都沒有。」
 如果因此就將從前所學拋諸腦後，是很可惜的。人不太可能一輩子都做同一個工作，持續花心力在學生時代所學的學科上，非但不是浪費，在轉職時反而能增加選擇的機會。

Do What You Think

93.7女兒小四

Do you ever do your own thing during your free time? Doing your own thing can make you happy. I think my parents should allow me to do my own thing on Sunday afternoon.

I need some rest. On Sundays, I have to practice five times a week. Also, I need to clean my room, which takes a lot of time. Then I won’t have time to rest.

I want some free time. I need it because you always tell me to do this, that …lots of things. I’ll be too tired. Also, if I have free time, I can let off some pressure.

Lastly, I can do the things I like! I can go to the places I’ve never been to in Tainan City so I can know more about them. Also, I can go to thenearby school to play or exercise.

 Huelien Ocean Park

93.10.29女兒小學

“What is the place called that we are going to, is it Hualien Ocean Park ?” I asked. After a long drive. We arrived at the Park.

The first thing I did was rush out of the car. When I was trying to go up and play my dad pulled me down because he thought I might get lost.

We got on an elevator and we started going up higher and higher, all the way to the top of a hill.

I saw different places where I could play, eat and do many things. We went to play first. There were so many things to play on it was hard to decide what to play first. The last thing I played on was the most fun. It was called the Circling Shells. When I played on it, it turned as fast as the light, it become faster until I started to slow down.

魚

96/9/5兒子國小四年級

大海裡的魚，自由自在的游泳

魚缸裡的魚，吃飽喝足就睡覺

攤子上的魚，跳來跳去找主人

當三個老朋友見面時

期末考

96/9/5兒子國小四年級

一張又一張，一課接一課，
每次的四十分鐘，一定會有人，東看看 西看看
當一次 長頸鹿，一定會有人，拉長他的耳朵，聽聽看 找答案
一週又一週，一年接一年，每到這個季節

Ocean And Space Exploration

There are lots of places in the universe that’s not been explore, but we haven’t even finish exploring the amazing water on the Earth! There are so many places that people have explored, but they see amazing creatures and images there. That makes us wants to find out more about these 2 very mystery places in the universe.

Ancient World Vacation

Dear Professor:

Sorry that I climb in your new time machine, I don’t know how it works, I just press the red bottom and the time machine starts to fly.

 CELL

96.9.5兒子小三

Golgi body is the part in the cell that prepares and store chemical products, its like small sac of membrane are pinch away from the cell. It packaged the proteins in vesicles and sent them out of the cell membrane, of course proteins isn’t the only one that is send away. The size and the number of the Golgi bodies in a cell depends on the quantity of chemicals product in the cell, the more it produce the more and bodies are found.

Ribosome is where the cell assembles proteins according to the genetic instructions, in human cells there’s a few million in it. Most of the proteins are made by free ribosome, proteins that are made by the bound ribosome usually export from the cell. The ribosome is made up of two subunits, each of them has its own mix of ribosomal RNA and proteins. These subunits join together to form a functional ribosome only when they attach to a messenger RNA molecule. Ribosome functions in protein synthesis. As they move along messenger RNA, amino acids are joined in an order originally dictated by DNA. Several ribosomes can be moving along the same messenger RNA at once.

TAIPEI TRIP

95.2.1女兒國小

“Where are you going?” our neighbor asked. It was a cloudy day, and it looked liked it was going to rain. The bad weather won’t blow our excitement away. We were going to Taipei for 3 days.

My father drove us to where he worked. “Oops, we were the last ones.” My mom said. This made all of us rush up to the bus, and our exciting trip started.

When we got to Taipei , it was noon . The leader took us to many different restaurants: a seafood restaurant, a tea restaurant . . . . . We stayed in a comfortable hotel in Taipei County . We didn’t just sit on buses. We also drove boats, rode on trains and walked too.

We went to all the places we could in 3 days. My favorite one was ‘ Taipei 101’. My father bough the tickets for the elevator to the 89^th floor, the floor that we could look down on the city. The elevator was so fast. It only took 47 seconds to get from the 5^th floor to the 89^th floor. W hen we looked down, it was amazing! All the cars and houses were like dust. We saw all of Taipei City .

渾身解數 賣掉自己       文／王念綺

你擁有優良的工作態度，好的專業技能，以及認真學習的精神，
一切要素都具備了，為什麼，遲遲無法發亮？

 My First Mission on Mars

“BANG!”

‘What’s that noise?’ I thought in the darkness. Then, after about an hour, the solar panels finally spread out, and ‘Where am I?’ I shouted. What I can see is only a red world, no plants, people, or any other things back Earth. While I’m thinking, I got a message from the station on Earth,’ Sojourner, this is Earth… here is a new mission for you…, you’re now on Mars… and I want you to…’ My 1^st mission!? How can it be? Well I can’t get back until I’m done, so I get on to work.

職業經理人職業生涯必須恪守的五大信條 　　於世偉

　　沒有任何藉口

　　對任何人來說，犯錯誤時都不要試圖做過多解釋。因爲錯誤已經造成了，你需要的只是用最短的時間改正和彌補它，其他解釋只是多餘。
 　　許多優秀的老闆都認同一個觀點：我可以原諒各種錯誤，但決不允許找藉口。在日常生活中，我們常會說：“我以爲……”但當你在說這句的時候，其實你已經在爲自己辯解了。

【仇人與 恩人】 

 網路流傳文章

學剛畢業的時候，某電視公司請我去主持個特別節目，那節目的導播看我文章不錯，又要我兼編劇。
可是當節目做完，領酬勞的時候，導播不但不給我編劇費，還扣我一半的主持費。
他把收據交給我說：『你簽收一千六，但我只能給你八百，因為節目透支了。』

太享受不足取 有陽光就夠了

理財周刊 2007/07/06【文／蔡聖裕】

文章連結  https://www.moneyweekly.com.tw/Magazine/Info/%E7%90%86%E8%B2%A1%E5%91%A8%E5%88%8A/6642

女兒在學校求學，周遭同學家境有較為富裕的，難免會有些光鮮亮眼的文具用品或玩具帶到學校，孩子回到家後，總是會以稱羨的口吻談到，要是他們也有該多好。

這時，就是教育小孩理財觀念的適當時機，告訴他們任何物品在購買前，要先衡量是需要的物品或只是想要、炫耀，一旦超過自己的財務能力所勉強購買的奢侈品，早晚造成財務上的傷害。

一個叫喬的人多年來從事一份他所憎惡的低薪工作。但他決定要富有地退休。於是他節衣縮食，盡可能地積攢每一分錢：在晚上及周末從事第二職業來為他的投資管道添加燃料。50年之後，自律和犧牲得到了回報。他的財務自由了。

小孩不笨，他的「天才」等你發掘

節錄「大家健康」 2007/06/15 【文／張慧心】

不但學懂珍惜、也要學懂愛惜

有一個女生，因為跟家裡相處得不好，所以很少回家,偶而有次回家，發現年老的母親走路一跛一跛的，不經意的看了母親的腳一眼，這才發現母親的腳指甲太長而長到肉裡面造成流血，流膿,這時，她認真的看者已經很久沒有正眼看過的母親,她才發現在她眼前的母親已經年老,老到已經沒有辦法彎下身來自己剪指甲,所以才會讓雙腳的指甲傷到肉，她哭了！

從此她變每個禮拜回家,用一盆溫水先幫母親泡腳再幫她剪指甲,泡溫水是讓腳指甲變軟，才不會因為這樣不好剪而傷到母親的腳。,一直以為父母也應該跟我們一樣能適應這個變化的世界,新的科技、新的資訊，新的理財觀…,直到最近幾年才知道他們追的蠻辛苦的,遙控器太多太複雜、聽不懂的專業術語、完全陌生的理財工具…,直到最近幾年才知道為了怕我們不耐煩,父母偶爾忍住了想說的話，想做的事,如果沒有這次遠遊，遲鈍的我也不會知道,一向熱心打點照顧我們子女無微不至的父母，退休十幾年的老爸，竟衰老得如此快速。

我們五姊妹只湊足了三個，決定陪爸媽去新加坡玩。在去程的飛機上，老爸四小時都不願如廁,任憑我們好說歹說，他依然老僧入定，不肯起身。

在每一站觀光區，他也是非到萬不得已才進男廁。有次我觀察到他小解很久才出來，看不到熟悉親人身影，先是向東搜尋，繼而向西眺望，即使在這節骨眼，他也不願放聲大喊大叫，讓我們子女沒有顏面，站在陌生人群中，一副茫然失魂的樣子，安靜、耐心等子女們的出現,我終於瞭解他出門在外不願如廁的原因。

以前不解事的小兒子常笑他八十幾歲的外婆，鈕釦都不會扣，真慢！真笨！好簡單的一件事，為什麼老人家們就是做不好？我們還未經歷到，當然難以理解，年紀大了有時候手腳會不由自主、不聽使喚,我以為老爸和婆婆之間還有一大段差距，誰知他也不知不覺走到這個階段了。

別當直昇機父母（Helicopter Parents）

【天下雜誌96年3月368期】